Hit, punch, kick, grab, choke or shove you? Force you to engage in sexual activity against your will? Display extreme jealousy?Destroy property - particularly yours? Intimidate, humiliate, insult and ridicule you? Isolate you from friends and family? Abuse pets or other living things? Are you afraid of your partners anger, even if you have never been hit? If you answered yes to any of the above questions, you are in an abusive relationship.